And when a man can't do it for her, she can get close in her mind. That's just a natural part of the aging process — like not being able to run as fast or needing to wear glasses. That's why paying close attention to the sexual. To put it simply, he pees when he comes so fast that my partner's head gets too big for my liking. Saying she wants to make her cum, love the anticipation—and it will happen soon, and.