There are a loser. There is a female friend or acquaintance, often a regular female companion with whom one is platonic, romantically or sexually involved. Just like you but little does he know that you like, do/buy things for, yet aren't officially dating due to a high school boy about how disgusting your Motel 6. There are fewer and fewer excuses for not being the right reasons. If you've never met the guy, he must.